July 9, 2018 § Leave a comment
- You get paid for the hours you actually work, not as a salaried employee who gets calls at all hours and doesn’t get paid extra for that.
- Your employer is more discerning about what can wait and what is an emergency when you’re billing them for time.
- You now have your own business and have many tax deductions you didn’t have before.
- You can have more than 1 client.
- You can work in your sweats.
- Savings for your boss—no more paying employee taxes, it’s actually cheaper for your boss to have you work from home virtually.
- You save valuable time commuting that makes you more productive when you hit your desk.
- Be there when your children come home or work your lunch hour into picking them up from school.
- Start with your existing boss but build up other clients and then specialize in work you enjoy doing (i.e. bookkeeping, staffing or construction management).
- Save the drama for your mama—no more workplace drama/gossip/wasted time chatting.
What other benefits can you think of?
September 16, 2017 § Leave a comment
Did you ever think about all the personalities we have to deal with in a day? Everyone has an agenda, even if it’s only to get you to respond to him or her. But when it gets dicey is when you have to placate a client/boss even when you don’t agree with their thinking. What do you do?
First of all, as personal/executive assistants they don’t pay us for our opinion and, depending on the boss, it’s dangerous to give one. Its human nature to want to be heard, confirmed and not wanting to hear anything to the contrary.
My best advise (and one that has served me for 25+ years) is don’t agree, don’t disagree, but be tactful and diplomatic when someone voices their opinion and wanting you to confirm them, say “I see how you could feel that way” or “I totally understand what you’re saying.” That way I’m not lying, I’m validating them, and my truth is I do see based on their personality why they feel the way they do.
February 12, 2017 § Leave a comment
Any Extreme Assistant with any experience has moved a household. It should be ranked in the 10 most stressful experiences because is not for the faint of heart. But it can be made easy…yes I said easy…with detailed organization.
Simple steps can help you be clear with expectations and the final results. Here’s how I start:
- Know what is going, staying, being donated or sold.
- Photograph each item as such (going, staying, donate, sell) and if possible, move all sold or donated items out of the house before the move.
- Walk the new property and know what the principal calls each room. This is very important for your move.
- Before packing, make sure items are tagged to those rooms.
- Make sure no box leaves until it is marked for the appropriate rooms. (You have no idea how much easier this makes the move-in process.)
- Upon move-in make sure each box goes into the appropriate room before anything gets unpacked. Before the movers leave make sure they finish the job correctly so you’re not lugging boxes around. (You’d be surprised how many boxes are still left in the wrong rooms.)
Now, there are even more detailed ways of doing this, depending how Type A your principal is. For example, I have photographed each cabinet (before packing) and had each box contain that cabinet ONLY. I printed the photos out so on move-in, those unpacking knew exactly what stayed together. You use more boxes but it guaranteed that items went back exactly as they were before.
What was your best move? Let me know about it. And leave me comments and questions that I will be happy to answer. Until then–
December 7, 2014 § Leave a comment
December—It’s all about the delivery (and last minute gifts)
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November 1, 2014 § Leave a comment
October—It’s all about the lists
This month it is all about the lists and getting answers you need to make the Holidays happen. The foundation of any good Holiday season is an accurate list. I’ve listed what has helped me for 25+ years, things you may want to consider to have your lists rocking and rolling. And yes, you don’t need one more thing to do, but if your lists are clear it’s a lot easier to get extra help and delegate what needs to be done.
Gift Master Database-Assistants Holy Grail
What comprises the list categories? The key is to make this a quick reference for years to come. Your list should contain:
- First and last names
- Category for relationship (vendor, family, staff)
- Gift decision (or card only) this year/last year
- Who is buying the gift (you or your boss)?
- Gift card message
- Shipping or hand-delivery?
Remember, you need these answers for every gift you give.
Who’s on the list?
- Family/Significant Others– (This year–did someone have a baby, get married, die or divorce?) Make all changes before giving the list to your employer
- Work Related Folks—Make sure you have a crew list or project lists of those who your boss worked with this year and ask, “Who do you want to add from that list?”
- House Staff—Housekeeper, Butler, Nanny, Driver, Chef, etc, etc…
- Vendors (home and office) make sure to give your boss a list of those who regularly service their home and office—mail person, water delivery, gardeners, handyman, pond, pool man, newspaper guy, etc. These are people that are not staff, but are outside vendors who service the house/office regularly. Will they get a gift card? A check? A greeting card? What amount? Does your boss lunch at regular restaurants? Does the Maître ‘D get a holiday tip? Your go-to Starbucks employee? You might get a little crazy here but a comprehensive list is best and your boss can always delete them. Hopefully, they will appreciate you bringing people to their attention since this is the time of the year the real ballers show their gratitude for the special service they’ve been getting all year, and want to continue to get.
- Offices—Don’t forget the office personnel where your boss frequents: Doctors, lawyers, PR firms, accountants, and the assistants you deal with regularly? A group gift sends a message that is appreciated all year long.
Greeting Card Master Database—
It is usually safe to assume if they are on your boss’ gift list, they will want to send them a card. My clients usually have two card lists—1) Business holiday card and, 2) Personal holiday card. Make sure you are clear on which one for each person on their list.
But wait, there’s more!
- Make sure the addresses are correct and current
- How formal does your boss go? Mr. & Mrs. or just first and last names? (If first names, find out significant other’s proper names now).
- Determine: card design; greeting sentiment; hand-signing or printing?
- Who is printing the card? What is their turnaround time? (Card should go out the 1st week of December.)
- Is it a photo card? Make the appt. for the photos shoot now.
- Buy the stamps and laser labels and possibly get the envelopes early from the printer so you can start addressing them. Make sure you’re clear on the return address you’re using on the envelopes-home or office?
- And if you’re using Paperless Post or similar online service, get those emails now.
And stay tuned for November’s blog next week—It’s all about the gifts!
October 15, 2014 § Leave a comment
The single most important trait of any good assistant are good organizational skills. Having systems and following through with them alleviates your mind and remedies needless anxiety. Let’s face it, you have enough to worry about.
When you are moving every minute of every day, responsible for hundreds of details, managing others and making sure your boss is not encountering any hiccups, do you really want to stress over remembering where you put that phone number on that slip of paper? How many of you have woken up in the middle of the night sucking in all the air in the room because you just remembered something you forgot to do?
Here’s are my personal Top 5, Cannot Live Without, tips to stay organized:
Tip #1: Write down everything. Use the same book and keep it with you ALWAYS. This way there is no doubt where your notes are. I recommend a book that fits into your laptop bag or purse.
Tip #2: Make yourself an end-of-the-day plan for the next day. Make this list while your priorities are fresh in your head because I guarantee you, there will be new “surprise” items to deal with in the morning. This will keep you from forgetting those holdover items.
Tip #3: Before quitting time, transfer your daily notes into your appropriate systems. Phone numbers written down hastily in shorthand that only you can read should be put into your contacts or onto call sheets with their full name; to do’s should be put on the list for tomorrow; and tasks that were completed should be crossed off.
Tip #4: A status email should be sent to your employer at the end of the day. This should include calls they still need to make or return, appointments for the next day, vendors who may be working at their home the following day, papers to be signed; and anything else important you were not able to communicate to them during the day. This list is a big help to you as well. Note—Never assume it got read by your employer, but you can read it to them in the morning and it’s a great CYA move.
Tip #5: Keep a “hot” folder that has all the paperwork you need to deal with immediately. Even if items carry over to the next day or week, you know where to put your hands on those that are most urgent.
While the brain is an assistant’s most valuable asset, give it some much-needed help! Trust in your processes so that when you cannot remember, you know where to look.